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Entries in Internet safety (17)

Wednesday
Oct172007

Making Nancy's message sticky

sampcf8a202317cc4638.jpgJohn Pederson offers up the challenge to make the ideas about filtering and Internet safety Nancy Willard writes about "sticky."

Chip and Dan Heath in Made to Stick; Why Some Ideas Survive and Others Die (Random House, 2007) suggest that "sticky ideas" have some common characteristics and that all of us can make our ideas stickier. Sticky ideas:

  • are simple
  • have elements of the unexpected
  • are concrete
  • come from a credible source
  • contain an emotional appeal.
  • use stories to make an impact.

(For those of you who would like to review the concept of stickiness, see this post.)

Can we make Nancy's ideas "stickier?" Off the top of my head... 

  • are simple

The dangers from predators on social networking sites has been overblown, resulting in adult hysteria and Internet overblocking.

  • have elements of the unexpected

More female teens solicit sex online than dirty old men.

Cyberbullying is causing kids more harm than sexual predators.

Middle School and High School girls were about twice as likely as boys to display cyber-bullying behaviors in the form of email, text, and chat. <http://www.kamaron.org/index.php/p/111/t/Cyber-bullying-articles-facts> 

  • are concrete

Iin 2005 there were only 100 known cases of child exploitation related to social-networking sites nationwide and that there was “not a single case related to MySpace where someone has been abducted." “Predators & cyberbullies: Reality check,” BlogSafety.com

  • come from a credible source
A study conducted by the Department of Family Medicine at the University of Michigan Medical School (JAMA, 2002) examined how well seven Internet filters blocked health information for teens at settings from least restrictive to very restrictive.  They found that at the least restrictive setting only 1.4% of the health information sites were blocked and 87% of the pornography sites were blocked. At the most restrictive setting, 24% of the health information sites were blocked with still only 91% of the pornography sites blocked. "Does Pornography-Blocking Software Block Access to Health Information on the Internet." JAMA, Dec 11, 2002. <www.med.umich.edu/fp/internet-filter-paper.pdf>

  • contain an emotional appeal.

 “What a person can accomplish with an outdated machine in a public library with mandatory filtering software and no opportunity for storage or transmission pales in comparison to what person can accomplish with a home computer with unfettered Internet access, high bandwidth, and continuous connectivity… The school system’s inability to close this participation gap has negative consequences for everyone involved.” Henry Jenkins, Confronting the Challenges of Participatory Culture <www.digitallearning.macfound.org>

  • use stories to make an impact.

David Knight's life at school has been hell. He was teased, taunted and punched for years. But the final blow was the humiliation he suffered every time he logged onto the internet. Someone had set up an abusive website about him that made life unbearable. <http://www.cbc.ca/news/background/bullying/cyber_bullying.html>

I rather jokingly suggested we have a contest to see if who could write the "stickiest" bit about this topic. Scott McLeod at Dangerously Irrelevant said he'd promote the idea as well.

Submit your "sticky" idea here and win a free copy of Machines Are the Easy Part; People Are the Hard Part. (I'll let Nancy be the judge of the best idea!) You will need to include your email address when you add your comment - addresses aren't published on the blog itself.

Contest closes November 1 so stick with it!


Monday
Oct082007

Fear mongering

Cyber-safety expert, Nancy Willard posted this on LM_Net recently and has given me permission to post it on the Blue Skunk as well. Money in fear. Tell me it isn't so...

I just got back from a trip to the east coast. I presented a full day workshop on cyberbullying in Rochester NY (275+ folks) and then a briefing that was supposed to be for congressional staff in DC, but was attended by the DC policy wonks, not staff. Then two presentations at a conference in Maryland.

EVERY place I went there was evidence of incredible Internet fear mongering!

A lady in Rochester said a FBI agent presented on Internet safety in Buffalo and said social networking sites are so horrible no teen should be using these sites.

At the briefing, the Representative, Rep Bean, who has a pretty good bill pending, said that predators are tracking down teens from the personal information they are posting online and sneaking into their room at night. NO evidence this is occurring! Teens are going to meet with these guys – and need to address this situation. But we have to do so based on the facts. I have been involved in this field for over 12 years and I have never seen one news report of an Internet predator who has tracked down and abducted a teen. I will not say “never will happen” but there is no current evidence
that this is occurring. And the news WOULD report this if it were.

Maryland State Police told the audience folks that 1 in 7 young people are sexually solicited online and (horrors) they are not reporting this to adults! This is based on 2005 data. The study did not even ask about social networking sites. Most of the inappropriate contacts were in chat rooms, which are far more dangerous than social networking sites. 43% of the solicitations came from other teens and 30% came from folks who self-identified as 18 to 25, so you know damned well that this also included lots of teens. Only 9% from folks identified as adults over 25. Of concern! But what were the teens doing in these places in the first place. 16% of the sexual solicitations came from females and it appears that most of them were under 18. So more female teens soliciting sex online than dirty old men. Teens responded to the situations by leaving the site, blocking the person, telling the person to stop, or ignoring the person. Some are telling friends. Most are not telling adults. Why did they not tell adults? Because “it was not serious enough!” They had it under control.

The IKeepSafe who are now partnering with DARE – the “just say no” program that has been proven time and time again to be totally ineffective! - and have their cute little Faux Paws cat telling kids not to talk with or go to meet with online strangers. Well for one, these materials are aimed at elementary students and there is no evidence predators are targeting them. Second, if we have 8 year olds hopping a bus to meet an online stranger at the mall, there are some pretty significant family problems to begin with. But we do have 8 year olds waddling around Club Penguin in their little penguin avatars talking with online strangers. And they are perfectly SAFE! Stranger danger messages ARE NOT EFFECTIVE! We know this. We have to help ALL young people learn to recognize the signs of a dangerous stranger.

I presented on cyberbullying in both locations. Cyberbullying is causing more kids far more harm than sexual predation. Some kids are being emotionally devastated, can’t go to school, some are even committing suicide. But the last thing you are ever going to hear me say is “Social networking is bad. Young people are being cyberbullied on social networking sites and through instant messaging. Keep them off these technologies."

newbook.jpgWhat is the other major reason teens are not telling adults??? Because adults are running about screaming “the sky is falling - social networking is evil” and teens, most of whom are making pretty good choices online, think we are all nuts. But the even bigger problem is that sometimes they really do get into difficult situations and they really do need to share that something bad is happening online. And the fear mongering is getting in the way of this. They pretty much know that adults are being primed to overreact and will. They know adults do not understand and fear this environment - and they are pretty sure the adults will not know what to do or will make matters worse. Or that adults will restrict their access, like the FBI advises. Which for teens is akin to excommunication. So we are leaving them to deal with difficult situations on their own.

And do not get me started on the state AG’s plan to fix all of these problems by requiring sites to do age verification. AGH!!!

Be prepared. I am going to have to become more politically vocal on these issues. The fear mongering is undermining the kinds of relationships we need with kids to help them stay safe and learn to make safe and responsible choices. The biggest thing we have to fear about the Internet right now is the fear mongering itself. (roughly quoting someone ;-))

Oh, part of this is also financial. They all want money - federal $$ - to support their fear mongering programs.
 
Nancy
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Nancy Willard, M.S., J.D.
Center for Safe and Responsible Internet Use
http://csriu.org
http://cyberbully.org
http://cyber-safe-kids.comindexr1.jpg
nwillard@csriu.org

Cyberbullying and Cyberthreats: Responding to the Challenge of Online Social
Aggression, Threats, and Distress (Research Press)

Cyber-Safe Kids, Cyber-Savvy Teens: Helping Young People Learn to Use the
Internet Safely and Responsibly (Jossey-Bass)


Thanks, Nancy. Good stuff and keep up the good work. Watch for Nancy new guide to Cyberbulling for parents coming to her website soon. She sent me an advanced copy and it is very good.
Monday
Mar192007

Policies 2.0 - Update 3

policy2.0.jpgThanks to everyone who tuned in yesterday afternoon. I had fun, but I've always said that the one doing all the talking is never bored. Anyway, I added the Think Before You Link poster below. And when the recording of this thing goes online, I'll add the link to that as well. Here is the link to the slideshow. And here is a link to the audio at Brian Grenier's Bump on the Blog.

The list below is the bibliography (webliography?) for my Discovery Education Webinar on March 21st. The article on which the presentation is based will be appearing in this summer's Threshold magazine. The links are in order they are mention in the talk, I am afraid.

Policies 2.0: Rules for the Social Web (teaser and resources)
In the fast-changing online world of social networking, where an embarrassing photo can travel the globe in seconds, online predators are the topic of nightly news programs, and young adults travel as avatars to virtual worlds where anything can happen, what policies do schools need to set and how do they set them?

thinklinksm.jpg
Mankato Schools poster. Permission to use freely given. For a larger image click here. 

Sites mentioned:
MySpace <www.myspace.com>
Pew Internet & American Life Project, Jan 2007 memo <www.pewinternet.org/pdfs/PIP_SNS_Data_Memo_Jan_2007.pdf>
Technocrati <technorati.com>
Wikipedia <www.wikipedia.org>
del.icio.us <del.icio.us>
Flickr <www.flickr.com>
YouTube <www.youtube.com>
Second Life <secondlife.com>
Teen Second Life <teen.secondlife.com>
The Horizon Report- 2007 <www.nmc.org/pdf/2007_Horizon_Report.pdf>.
ISD77 Acceptable Use Policy <www.isd77.k12.mn.us/district/isd77policies/524.pdf>
Larry Magid and Anne Collier (book) MySpace Unraveled: What it is and how to use it safely. (Peachpit, 2006)
 Parry Aftab, Kids Online in Schools: Risk Management & the Law <kan-safe.info/>
The Internet Archive (Wayback Machine) <www.archive.org>
Andy Carvin, learning.now blog “DOPA Jr.” <www.pbs.org/teachers/learning.now/2007/01/lifting_the_hood_on_dopa_jr.html>
SchoolBoredom.com <www.schoolboredom.com>
“Tracking Theresa” and “Julie’s Journey” <www.netsmartz.org/resources/reallife.htm>
ISD77  resource list of websites for parents about safe Internet use <www.isd77.k12.mn.us/parents>
Gargoyles Loose in the Library blog <www.uni.uiuc.edu/library/blog/index.html>
Hennepin County Library in MySpace <www.myspace.com/hennepincountylibrary>
Wikibooks http://en.wikibooks.org/wiki/Main_Page
Virtual literary worlds <www.literaryworlds.wmich.edu/worldlist.htm>
Confronting the Challenges of Participatory Culture <www.digitallearning.macfound.org>
Tips on forming and running an advisory group at <www.doug-johnson.com/dougwri/advice.html>
Vicki Davis, Cool Cat Blog <coolcatteacher.blogspot.com/2007/02/including-classmate-with-leukemia.html>
Predators & cyberbullies: Reality check (BlogSafety)
<www.blogsafety.com/thread.jspa?threadID=1100000263&tstart=0>

Recommended websites about Internet safety for parents
Center for Safe and Responsible Internet Use <csriu.org>
Children's Partnership <www.childrenspartnership.org>
CyberBullying information <www.cyberbully.org>
CyberSmart <cybersmart.org>
Family Guide Book <www.familyguidebook.com>
Get Net Wise <www.getnetwise.org>
iKeepSafe.org <ikeepsafe.org/PRC/>
Internet Safety Advisor <internetsafetyadvisor.info>
McGruff Online Safety for Kids <www.mcgruff.org/advice/online_safety.php>
MediaWise <www.mediafamily.org/resources.shtml>
National Center for Missing and Exploited Children <www.ncmec.org>
NetLingo: Top 20 Internet Acroynms Every Parent Needs to Know < www.netlingo.com/top20teens.cfm>
NetSmartz <www.netsmartz.org/netparents.htm>
Play It Cyber Safe <www.playitcybersafe.com>
SafeKids.com <www.safekids.com>
SafeTeens.com <www.safeteens.com>
Safety Ed International <www.safetyed.org>
Wired Safety Website  <www.wiredsafety.org/parent.html>

Readers, send in more resources!