Weeding the personal collection

One of my first nationally published professional articles celebrated the benefits of weeding books. Published in School Library Journal in 1990, "Weeding the Neglected Collection" tells the story of why and how I reduced a small high school print collection from 13,500 to 7,000 volumes - and the effort’s benefits. All in a rather amusing style, if I do say so myself.
If weeding is good for public and public school collections, is it not also good for home collections? But I find selecting books for discard from the bookshelves in my own living room, home office, and bedroom to be even more challenging. These are my books after all.
And my books are not just stories or information. They are touchstones of memory as well. That old travel guide from the 90s is not just about Paris, but about my son’s and my visit to the Louvre. The books of quotations and advice like The Peter Principle remind me of lessons that I learned while beginning to manage others in my role as technology coordinator. That old novel still conjures up the joy of the protagonist’s wins and the sadness of their losses. The picture book is an autographed copy, acquired after having a beer at a library conference with the author themselves.
Perhaps the most difficult books I got rid of were those in which some of my own writing appeared. I wrote many chapters or introductions for books over the years such as Ethics in School Librarianship: A Reader edited by Carol Simpson. While I long ago tossed the boxes and boxes of magazines and journals in which my regular columns and articles appeared, I kept these books, despite not having opened them for a couple decades. Their presence, I suppose, symbolized the same thing as the small plaques from professional associations adorning my home office - that I was once a contributing member in the field of education.
For those of us who love books, getting rid of the physical object feels immoral. Happily my old children’s books and novels and travel books were graciously accepted by the public library to be sold at book sales they hold to raise funds. But the public library made it clear they did NOT want textbooks or books in poor physical condition. My quick research showed conflicting advice on whether to recycle (glue in bindings of books is not good) or simply add old books to the landfill. (Magazines went into recycling; books to the landfill.) Tossing books in the garbage bin hurts.
If such agony is involved, why weed personal collections at all then? I do it for the sake of my kids who will one day have to deal with my physical junk as my siblings and I are dealing with my mother's junk after having downsized to a senior living apartment. My children and grandchildren have too busy and interesting lives to spend time reading decades old professional writings outside their fields anyway. And overstuffed bookshelves have never been my thing.
Now on to thinning out my DVDs and CDs!