BFTB: Picking your fights
Saturday, August 21, 2010 at 06:00AM A Saturday Blue Skunk "feature" will be a revision of an old post. I'm calling this BFTP: Blast from the Past.
Picking your fights (Originally published August 19, 2005)
A coach was the keynote speaker at a banquet I recently attended. Is it just me, or do coaches speak only in clichés? This guy had forty-five minutes worth.
But he did tell one joke that I'd not heard before. It’s on the slightly blue-side, so if you are easily offended, stop reading now. Here it goes:
On his way into the saloon, a runty little cowboy passes his horse and notices that somebody has painted its testicles bright pink. He storms into the bar and shouts, “Where’s the low down dirty varmint that painted my horse’s testicles bright pink? I’ve got something to say to him!”
From the back of the saloon comes a giant, mean-looking cowboy who stands right up to the little cowboy, towering over him. He looks down and says, “I painted your horse’s testicles bright pink. Now just what was it you wanted to say to me?”
The little cowboy gulps, then squeaks, “Just thought you might want to know the first coat is dry.”
The point of the story, said the coach, is that we should pick battles that are big enough to matter, but small enough to win.
Now that is not bad advice, but no one ever goes on to explain just how a person determines a battle’s size or importance. I know more than a few librarians and techs who seem to fight very hard about some very trivial issues and others that are just doormats.
While I am by no means perfect at picking my own fights, I’ve gotten better at it as I’ve gotten older. One concept that’s worth thinking about is the relationship between one’s “Circle of Influence” and “Circle of Concern” described by Stephen Covey in his book The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People. Most people’s Circle of Concern is far larger than their Circle of Influence. (I am concerned about global warming, but my ability to stop it is relatively small.) Covey states, “Proactive people focus their efforts in the Circle of Influence. They work on the things they can do something about. “
That seems pretty simple. Spend your time on the things you can actually do something about. If I am worried about funding for my program for example, I just might allocate the time I have available to work on this issue as follows:
- Building budget: 90% Working with my principal, site team, advisory commitee, and PTA to create a building budget and to prioritize the building’s budget. Serving on the interview team when selecting new administrators. Working with teachers to build units that use library and technology resources.
- District budget: 5% Serving on a district library/tech committee. Speaking at school board meetings. Working for the election of library friendly school board members.
- State budget: 3% Lobbying for state dollars for libraries, technology and the general education formula with teacher and library/tech organizations. Working to elect state political leaders friendly to education.
- National budget: 2% Working to elect national political leaders friendly to education.
- Global economic policies: 1%: Staying informed. Donating to “causes.”
How do you know if the battle is too small? That’s easy - if the issue impacts only you with no direct negative consequences on your students or staff, it’s too small – period.
So how do you determine which battles to fight?
Reader Comments (1)
This is great advice and needs refreshing every once in a while when starting a new year. Some things just aren't worth worring over.